04.30.08
Life in slow motion
While I was pregnant, I often wondered how I would be able to handle life with a baby. “It will be a different pace,” I’d say. And I would get knowing, but secretive grins back from parents who had been there. I know myself quite well and though the days aren’t quite as tedious I thought they might be (nursing, changing diapers, bathing and napping — the baby not me of course), I have found myself going a bit stir crazy on the occasional day. I have made 2 cakes since he was born 7 weeks ago which is 1 more cake than I made in the previous year.
But most days I am in awe of how quickly the days go by even without my usual jam-packed schedule. It turns out a sleeping boy on my chest is exactly how I want to spend a good 90 minutes every day. I usually have the computer or a book or magazine nearby, but I am easily distracted by the pattern of his breathing or to stare one more time at his perfect face in complete wonderment.
The sleepless nights and early mornings were something I dreaded full force, but most days I am able to shake the grumpiness off in exchange for a bubbly, smiling baby who just can’t wait to get his day started. It’s very cliche, I know, but he reminds me of everything good in the world (driving with the sunroof open on the first spring day, the smell of a wood fire in October, making the first tracks in a bed of pristine snow, whipped cream anyway it comes — you get the picture). Many times a day, I get the chance to appreciate what a moment can offer. And so with Elliott (with Peat on the right), I have a persistent reminder that life in slow motion is not only good, it’s perfect.
03.31.08
Opening Day
It’s Opening Day at Wrigley Field. I am a Cubs fan — ever-suffering, ever-loyal. Okay, I have an occasional affair with the San Francisco Giants, but I am allowed because I was born in a beautiful town that has no Major League baseball team. Anyway, I am a Cubbie. I still contend that there is no better baseball experience than the bleachers at Wrigley and I have been to some great parks. Yes, Red Sox fans, even better than Fenway (though Fenway is a close 2nd).
In 1908, the Chicago Cubs won the World Series. It’s 2008, I have a newborn son who’s sleeping on my chest (hopefully, he will be awake for the 7th inning stretch) while I watch WGN and I am a big fan of serendipity.
Take me out to the ballgame!
01.07.08
Her campaign
As an Obama supporter, I could have easily posted a congratulatory, celebratory entry on how exciting it was to see him win in Iowa. Of course, it would have been easy to say what the pundits were saying about his victory and his “thumping” of Hillary Clinton. I could have talked about a “dawn of a new day in America” as some have claimed with the Iowa caucus results shining a bright light on pluralism in our often monolithic national identity.
But I didn’t have anything to add — and in fact, didn’t want to overstate this victory. Instead, I hoped that it would bring some balance to the coverage of the campaign — get to the issues. Indeed, hope is so now. With perhaps the most diverse field of Presidential candidates for one of the major parties ever, hope is not just something Barack Obama can do.
Many women are hopeful that a certain wife of a certain very popular former President, will be anointed in her own right. And for good reason. She is a talented public official who has worked her entire life to make this country a better place. I haven’t always agreed with her, but have never doubted that the betterment of the nation was and still is her aim.
As someone who is not one of her supporters in the primary, it’s a slippery slope to being against her rather than for my candidate. But I won’t do that. Politicians — all of them — make calculated choices. Running a campaign is a strategic endeavor. It doesn’t happen by accident and it doesn’t happen solely from the heart. There is (hopefully…dear God, we hope) also a powerful mind (or two) behind a campaign. Hillary Clinton is a very accomplished woman who has risked much to aspire to the heights of running for President. As a woman, I am proud to see her in the field of candidates and a major one at that. And I am just as proud of my choice to not support her in the campaign and I think, though she would disagree with my reasons mightily, that she would be proud of my choice, too. Her reason for running and my reason for not supporting her collide in the same empowered woman universe. I have chosen not to support her because of positions she has taken in her earned position of power as a Senator.
But for those who choose not to support her because they want to place an impossible strait jacket on her — suspicious of every move she makes, but never flinching at the motives of her male counterparts, I cry foul. Showing up at rallies yelling “iron my shirt” or accusing her of manipulation when she chokes up answering a voter’s question while lauding the ability of male candidates to “show emotion” when they do the same has nothing to do with supporting your candidate. Rather, it is the same tired old tactic that keeps us electing the same old, white men to lead election after election.
So, Senator Clinton, know that not all women democrats are supporting you in the primaries, but a good number of us who aren’t admire your courage to run and condemn the double standards with which you (and we) are held. If you do go on to win the nomination, you will have my support 100%. We need a fellow donkey in that White House. Though you are not my first choice, you would still make one helluva leader of the free world.
11.20.07
Liquid Heaven
So, this time of year is my favorite. I am a huge fan of fall, especially the fall that falls between Halloween and Thanksgiving. It smells fantastic outside. It’s never too hot and making warm food is required every day. Plus, the holiday season starts up and people just seem to be in good moods.
One of my favorite things about the holidays is making homemade goodness. In the case of Thanksgiving, homemade Egg Nog is all the goodness anyone should need. I think it tastes like liquid heaven and thanks to Shaboom’s Kitchen — you all can know what I am talking about.
The recipe says you can mix the Egg Nog with Brandy, Rum or Whiskey. My friends and family prefer Brandy, though I must say I like my Liquid Heaven sans spirits.
09.24.07
Jena 6: An unacceptable America
When I was researching my undergraduate degree on the death penalty, I was shocked to find out that the jury is not where the major statistical racial difference lie. Instead, it was in the prosecutor’s office, where the decision to prosecute a crime and at what severity is made. I don’t have the data on hand to back me up on this, but I would guess that the arrest and charge stages of the justice system is where a majority of racial differences occur. I would be interested in speaking to anyone who has up-to-date data on this.
Clearly, this is the issue with the Jena 6. I am disgusted at the lack of concern about this case. Many will say it’s black vs. white, but I don’t think so. It’s justice vs. injustice. If everyone isn’t outraged when these pitiful displays of racial prejudice in our system are illuminated, what then can we say of our sacred justice system? The system is supposed to protect each of us from being unfairly accused or even too harshly charged. Richard Cohen from the Southern Poverty Law Center was quoted in the Chicago Tribune saying, the data consistency show that black people are treated more harshly than white people in the criminal justice system. “Blacks aren’t often given the benefit of the doubt,” he said. “If discretion is exercised, it’s more often exercised in an adverse way to blacks.”
No one is saying that a kid wasn’t beat up. What they are saying is that the charge and punishment should fit the crime — no matter what color someone’s skin is. The continuing tolerance of bigotry — from the nooses on the tree to the unwarranted attempted murder charge — is a stain on this country and one that sets only deeper when it is held up next to our shameful response to Katrina. America must face its ghosts sooner or later — if it’s sooner, maybe we can live with ourselves.
Here are some articles/opinion pieces about the Jena 6:
White supremacist backlash builds over Jena 6
Jena 6: a black and white issue
07.15.07
8 down, 1 to go
AlterNet linked to an interesting blog post about the Republican showing at the NAACP’s recent candidate forum. While all Democratic candidates for President managed to attend their forum, only Tom Tancredo, an outspoken anti-immigrant candidate, showed up for the Republican forum. As they often say, a picture’s worth a thousand words.
Now, the NAACP is certainly not lacking a need for a boost in image themselves, so not only is it embarrassing to the Republican party, but should probably send a message to the NAACP that they may have some work to do as well. However, the oldest and arguably most influential civil rights organization deserves more respect than the leading Republican candidates could muster. I say, “Shame on them!” or as the picture loudly proclaims, “8 down, 1 to go.”
P.S. Props, by the way, to the NAACP event manager who shrewdly kept the empty podiums with each candidates’ name placards in clear view as Candidate Tancredo stood on stage by himself.
07.10.07
Live Bloggin’ the All Stars
My favorite blogger ever is doin’ her thing again today. It’s the All Star Game today, so meet me at Camera 3.
Stop what you are doing, go home early and find an air-conditioned sports bar or cool, dry basement with a big screen tv and watch the boys of summer show off all in good fun. And power up that laptop and check out the brilliant and hilarious musings of the best ALer I know!
Mariner Housewife live blog in the hiz-ouse!
05.16.07
Help Portland lead again with recycling
The City of Portland used to be the nation’s leader when it came to our recycling program. Though we are still far ahead of many places in the country, we can do better. There is a plan that the city is opening up to public comment online and at public meetings. Highlights of the plan include: rollcarts for recyclables (including plastic tubs now), rollcarts for yard debris and later, food scrap pickup at your curb. The goals of the plan are to have zero growth in the waste stream and increase recycling rates to 75% by 2010. These are the kinds of programs that municipal governments are good at! So, comment online or attend a public meeting to voice your opinion. I, for one, am all for it. Don’t say they never asked you!
05.08.07
Old friends
Peat and I met up with an old friend of mine from Syracuse University. Jason Jedlinski is one of the smartest, motivated and interesting people I know. It was so great to get back in touch with him and reminisce about our old days at Day Hall 7 at SU. We got caught up on each other’s lives. He attributed a clever nickname for him that I am sure was from Steph Beagan: “omniknowledge boy”. Why can’t I make clever shit like that up? But my favorite part was when we started talking about what our generation owes to the world and how we both know that there is work left undone. It was cool to be able to sit across from someone who knows that the world could be a better place and feels responsible to contribute to it. Even better, Peat said he loves it when I get visionary about the future. That’s why I love the idea about growing old with him. The more time we spend together, the more devoted we are to our future. City Council…here I come. To old friends and new commitments!
04.30.07
Wrigley, here we come!
Yay! I just got our tickets to the Cubs game that we are going to on May 10th — it’s a day game, too! I am so excited. I can’t wait to sing the 7th inning stretch with Cubs fans again. This will be my second time to good old Wrigley, but Peat’s first. I opted not to risk being shut out of the bleachers, plus it’s always good to have another view of the field. The first time I was at Wrigley, I sat in the bleachers with my friend Mary Beth. It was one of the best days ever! Ask her, she agrees! And while that day will probably never be recreated, I have to say I am so happy to be able to experience Wrigley with my guy. I love sharing my favorite things with Peat. So, at about 1:20 pm Portland time on May 10th, start singing the 7th inning stretch, you will probably be singing it with us!